EVERY HUSBAND SHOULD READ THIS:
Love her …when she sips on your coffee or tea. She only wants to make sure it tastes just right for you.
Love her…when she “pushes” you to pray. She wants to be with you in Heaven.
Love her…when she asks you to play with the kids. She did not “make” them on her own.
Love her…when she is jealous. Out of all the men she can have, she chose you.
Love her…when she has annoying little habits that drives you nuts. You have them too.
Love her…when her cooking is bad. She tries.
Love her…when she looks dishevelled in the morning. She always grooms herself up again.
Love her…when she asks to help with the kids homework. She only wants you to be part of the home.
Love her…when she asks if she looks fat. Your opinion counts, so tell her she’s beautiful.
Love her…when she looks beautiful. She’s yours so appreciate her.
Love her…when she spends hours to get ready. She only wants to look her best for you.
TO MAKE A WOMAN HAPPY, GIVE HER THESE THREE THINGS:
ATTENTION, AFFECTION & APPRECIATION.
Love her…when she buys you gifts you don’t like. Smile and tell her it’s what you’ve always wanted.
Love her…when she has developed a bad habit. You have many more and with wisdom and politeness you have all the time to help her change.
Love her…when she cries for absolutely nothing. Don’t ask, tell her it’s going to be okay.
Love her…when she suffers from PMS. Buy chocolate, rub her feet and back and just chat to her (this works!).
Love her…when whatever you do is not pleasing. It happens and will pass.
Love her…when she stains your clothes. You needed a new shirt anyway.
Love her…when she tells you how to drive. She only wants you to be safe.
Love her…when she argues. She only wants to make things right for both.
Love her…she is yours. You don’t need any other special reason!!!
All this forms part of a Woman’s Character.
Women are part of your life and should be treated as the Queen.
• Treat the women well.
Prophet Muhammad (SallAllaahu Alaihi Wasallam) has said:
THE BEST OF YOU IS WHOEVER HIS WIFE KINDLY.
“The best of you are those who are best to their families, and I am the best of you to my family.”
The best of you, are those who treat their wives kindly
• The best of you are those who are the best in the treatment of their wives.”
“The best of women are those that please her husband when he sees her, obeys him when she is commanded, and who does not secretly betray him with regards to herself and her money in that which he dislikes.”
The Glorious Quran Surah Ar-Rum (The Romans) – 30:21
وَمِنْ آيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِّتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُم مَّوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً إِنَّ فِي ذَلِكَ لَآيَاتٍ لِّقَوْمٍ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ (30:21
And among His wonders is this: He creates for you mates out of your own kind. so that you might incline towards them, and He engenders love and tenderness between you: in this, behold, there are messages indeed for people who think!
[Surah Ar-Rum 30:21]
Allah(swt) has promised the male and female believers gardens with rivers flowing under them, renaming in them timelessly, forever, and fine dwellings in the gardens of Eden. And Allah’s good pleasure is even greater. That is the great victory.
[Surah At Tawba, 72]
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